I’d a lunch go out with a man I’d exchanged certain email messages and several a g-chat with. We actually Skyped-which I’ll be creating a post onâ¦we suggest Skype or iChat with a romantic date just before waste time doing your tresses, specifically if you’re juggling lot’s of times. For reals.
Anyways, all ended up being good regarding “No Catfish Here Front”. We appeared as if me, the guy appeared to be him, we chuckled and chose we can easily deal with an actual day.
I became timely, he had been later part of the (whyyyyyyyyyâ¦stop getting LATER all of you)â¦and he texted me, “simply strolling upwards!”
It absolutely was pouring rain, did We point out that? And freezing, at the very least for Southern California requirements. And he ended up being using flip-flops. SHOES. The.Horror.
I hate to seem extremely judgemental (too-late!) but as web daters, actually that everything we would? JUDGE! Judge the very first email, basic call, the Twitter assess, trying to find what is wrongâ¦instead of what’s correct? Or is that just meâ¦haha.
Now, I am not planning to beat around the bush right here. I think men using flip flops in the rain is obnoxious. I’d consider the exact same about a girlâ¦but in which I reside, sandals and sandals never have put away forever and I also know i have been responsible for a grocery shop run in sandals during a storm. The vast majority of men i will be attracted to are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip flops and trousers tend to be types of their unique uniform. Perform If only he’d the current presence of brain to put up actual boots? Precisely why yes, yes I do. Did he require a pedicure? Indeed, yes he did-all that outdoorsy-ness i love so much will not leave the feet looking also sexy, it seems that.
But I digress.
We chuckled lots and he is devastatingly good-looking. He has flawless table ways and requested suitable concerns. Circumstances seemed to be going really because soon after we ate, the guy requested basically desired to choose another spot to find some pumpkin cheesecake. I forgot about their footwear and stopped judgingâ¦and just had a great time.
Whether or not he or she is someone I would like to continue matchmaking has yet to get determined, however if situations keep working well, perhaps we’ll just have to get him a set of Chuck Taylor’s for xmas and burn the flip flops. With really love, obviously. And an alibi. ????